{"id":158,"date":"2001-11-10T18:41:56","date_gmt":"2001-11-11T01:41:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.mortie.net\/journal\/?p=158"},"modified":"2008-01-04T18:44:08","modified_gmt":"2008-01-05T01:44:08","slug":"thank-you-good-night","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mortie.net\/journal\/index.php\/2001\/11\/10\/thank-you-good-night\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8220;Thank you! Good night!&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Friday, 9 November(continued): &#8220;Passive-aggressiveness, London style&#8221;<\/strong>Not all is perfect in London. I&#8217;m used to passive-aggressiveness in Seattle. When I first moved to the Emerald City in 1994, I thought, &#8220;Wow! How laid back, polite and flaky is the populace!&#8221; It was when I attempted to find a place to live that I realized how aggressive people could be here. At the time, the rental market had a 1% vacancy rate, and stories of 30-50 people waiting in front of an available property were common.<\/p>\n<p>I was reminded of this as I try to board a coach during rush hour to Vika&#8217;s house in order to meet a gathering for a Russian dinner she&#8217;s cooking. A polite queue at the bus stop becomes an all-out shoving. It&#8217;s strange in that, only seconds before the bus arrived, people were polite and friendly, and then upon seeing a double-decker bus fogged with the sweat and smell of an already over-capacity crowd, did they scramble towards it wanting in on the action. It was kind of cool, though, to see businessmen and blue-collared folk compete for space on a loaded clown car that is a London bus.<\/p>\n<p>Dinner is beautiful. The wonderful vapors emanating from the borscht remind me of my grandmother&#8217;s house (which at times could have both the smell of mothballs and boiled dumplings), and the surroundings in which the food is served are elegant &#8212; a welcome departure from a hostel common area.<\/p>\n<p>The conversation jumps around the room erratically. At one point, we discuss Italian game shows, and why a bikini clad woman is usually present in each of them, and that her sole responsibility is to do nothing more than smile at the camera and wear a bikini.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s cold tonight, and we have to take the bus back, because the Tube stops running around 1 am. It gets us to London Bridge, only halfway to our destination. A shabbily dressed man asks us if we need a cab. He&#8217;s not licensed, as his rusting Hyundai Excel imitation indicates, so we wave him off. Money is well spent for the cab that does arrive 15 minutes later.<\/p>\n<p>Ivan returns at 2:30 am. He missed the dinner, and we talk about the day&#8217;s events and what we might possibly do with our respective lives after we return to our respective cities of residence.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mortie.net\/journal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/01\/dscn1425.jpg\" alt=\"The devil in Iain!\" \/><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/www.mortie.net\/journal\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/01\/dscn1426.jpg\" alt=\"Vika (second from left) with the gang.\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Saturday, 10 November: &#8220;You&#8217;ve been a great crowd&#8221;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ivan&#8217;s off to LA, and I pack while watching a BBC Saturday morning children&#8217;s program, featuring a cartoon starring good and evil sumo wrestlers locked in life and death struggle.<\/p>\n<p>I realize the finality of this journey as I purchase my one-way ticket to Heathrow at Earl&#8217;s Court station. I&#8217;m going to miss this city.<\/p>\n<p>On the flight home, we&#8217;re stalled an hour. One of the passengers has had a medical emergency, which seems strange because they haven&#8217;t served lunch yet.<\/p>\n<p>An Aussie woman sitting next to me is flying to Seattle to meet a friend. It&#8217;s her first time to the US. We talk about the WTO riots, Seinfeld and the Simpsons. It&#8217;s like she&#8217;s lived in America all her life.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Funny thing, globalization,&#8221; I think, as the British Airways Flight 049 penetrates the cloudy gray shell that makes Seattle my home.<\/p>\n<p class=\"facebook\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/share.php?u=https:\/\/www.mortie.net\/journal\/index.php\/2001\/11\/10\/thank-you-good-night\/\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Share on Facebook\">Share on Facebook<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Friday, 9 November(continued): &#8220;Passive-aggressiveness, London style&#8221;Not all is perfect in London. I&#8217;m used to passive-aggressiveness in Seattle. 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